Author: SO GOOD QUOTES

  • A person who is free from anger is someone who doesn’t mind dishonor. A person who is free from anger is somebody who is not worried about their dignity; they’re not worried about whether they are esteemed by people or not.

    Fr. Antony Paul

  • During your time in the community, you are testing yourself to see if you can bear with people. Do you lose your peace? Do you hate people? Or do you try to avenge oneself? If you try to isolate yourself in order not to engage in these troubles, you are likened to a person who refuses to take an exam for fear of failing. The result is that you will not graduate. The correct action is for a person to take the exam and pass. It is easy to sit alone and not make mistakes. Neither will the devil leave you; he will give you even more thoughts than people would, to the point that you will leave your cell saying, “It is better to deal with people than to deal with this mental warfare.” Take the test and succeed.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Monastic Treasures for All of Us

  • If you say that the words are irritating, even if they are, are you the type of person who is easily angered or not? If you are easily angered, then the problem is not in the words, but in you.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Monastic Treasures for All of Us

  • In the life of repentance, one does not become upset with people, as this is the result from a broken self inside. Being upset at others is always associated with pride inside one’s heart. Pride inside the heart causes a person to rage over honor; when one is angered, one rages.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Monastic Treasures for All of Us

  • If someone says something harsh to you, pretend that you did not hear it and that he didn’t mean it. Take it with gentleness, laugh, turn it into something funny, don’t turn it into something serious. You can’t win people with absolute seriousness, you can’t… Christ the Lord endured all our sins.

    H.H. Pope Shenouda Ill

  • If one says a word to you, you could accept the word calmly, or you could think about it deeply: Why did he say this? What did he mean? Did he mean to belittle me? I cannot keep quiet. Here you have allowed the word to affect you profoundly, and so it became deeply-rooted in you. Therefore, do not ponder daily events in depth; overlook them and allow them to pass by calmly. Only those thoughts which take root in your mind and heart will bother you.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Monastic Treasures for All of Us

  • Humble yourself before God; that is, like the wise thief say from your whole heart: “I have received as I deserve according to my deeds. Remember me, O Lord, when Thou comest into Thy Kingdom.” Do not be like the other thief who railed at everyone, cursed, blamed others for his sufferings, and in this way only made his situation worse and perished.

    Abbot Nikon Vorobiev, Abbot Nikon Letters to Spiritual Children p.174

  • Sometimes our failure in dealing with certain people is due more to our ignorance of how to treat them, than to their personal faults.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Characteristics of the Spiritual Path

  • How many times have you suffered from severe tribulations and vowed before God that if He saves you, you will do such and such? Do you abide by the pledges which you vow before God during your affliction?

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Characteristics of the Spiritual Path

  • Such a man knows that whatever is wrong in the world is in himself, and if he only learns to deal with his own shadow he has done something real for the world.

    —May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude