Category: LOVE

  • One of the saints said, “Those who come closest to Christ achieve the greatest victories.” What does that mean? It means that if you’re generous, and kind, you’re giving, you might overcome anger inside your heart, you might overcome resentment, hatred, lack of forgiveness inside your heart.

    Fr. Mina Dimitri

  • “People will love you, people will hate you, and none of it will have anything to do with you.”

    — Abraham Hicks

  • It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start.

    —St Teresa of Calcutta

  • A bad word makes even good people bad, but a good word turns even bad people into good.
    —Saint Macarius the Elder

    Our words have so much power, yet it’s so easy to say them without thinking.

    Have you ever chosen to say something nice when you didn’t feel like it? What happened?

    Like an oasis in the desert, a kind word can bring forth beauty.

    Choose to say something good today and see what comes of it!

    Edna King, One Good Thought: A Good Word is an Oasis

  • I was told of such an instance in St. Petersburg. There was some sort of meeting of young people who were advocates of universal welfare – this was at the very height of the progressive raving. One gentleman was making an impassioned speech about love for mankind and the people. Everyone was enraptured.

    But when He returned home, his servant did not open the door quickly enough – he had not seen him coming. The servant did not give him a candle quickly enough, something had happened to his pipe, and it was a little cold in his room. Our philanthropist could not stand this, and finally he sharply reprimanded his servant. The latter answered something back, and the former struck him in the chest. And so here is our fine fellow who was overflowing with love toward mankind in one place, who could not behave properly toward even one person at home.

    Also at the very height of progressive raving, there were some pretty girls who threw themselves into the work of bookbinding establishments, who often left their mothers without a crust of bread. All the same, they imagined that they were in some way moving forward and establishing the happiness of mankind.

    All troubles come from a mental outlook that is too broad. It is better to humbly cast your eyes down toward your feet, and to figure out which step to take where. This is the truest path.

    —St. Theophan the Recluse, The Spiritual Life

  • “I have never seen anyone corrected through anger, but always through love.”

    Elder Joseph the Hesychast

  • We should be careful not to provoke or embitter one another. Let us behave in a gentle, courteous manner, loving our neighbor and not criticizing or judging anyone. Criticism is the greatest and most terrible sin.

    Gerondissa Makrina (Vassopoulou)

  • One might say that another’s action will destroy the monastery. Yet, if the action is truly wrong, it will surely be revealed; you should not necessarily be the one who reveals it. It will be revealed on its own. If you place yourself as a watchdog over the actions of others, then, as the saying goes, you will have turned from a worshipper into a judge. Did you come to work as judges, or worshippers? Each one of us should say, “I will keep to myself. What business is it of mine? What brought me into all of these affairs?”

    The wronged will be avenged by God, the peace of the monastery will be protected by God, those commissioned have their own responsibilities, and each of you should keep to yourself. If you keep to yourself, you will be respected by all, loved by all, and trusted by all, and if you do intervene on any given occasion, your word will have a positive impact.

    —Pope Shenouda III, Monastic Treasures for All of Us

  • He who reproaches himself is able to live in continual peace with others. Even if a misunderstanding were to arise, through his self-reproaching, reconciliation is easily attained. Strife worsens when each party persists in his own stand, each justifying himself that he is in the right, and the other in the wrong.

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Before the Just Judge

  • Do you love God, or do you not love Him? Is there a relationship between you and Him, or not? Is there friendship, is there knowledge, is there communion, or not?

    —H.H. Pope Shenouda III, Before the Just Judge