Category: MARRIAGE

  • “Viri,” she said through the doorway, “but isn’t it better to be someone who follows her true life and is happy and generous, than an embittered woman who is loyal? Isn’t that so?”

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • “Do you live in the city?” she asked. “Yes.” In the city and alone. That was very interesting to her, she said, the idea of living alone. What was it like? “Luxurious,” he said. “You get used to it,” Jivan added. “It depends so much on who you ask, doesn’t it?” she said. “If you don’t have a woman you must have some other passion,” Jivan said.

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • “You can marry.” “You know I can’t.”

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • You think when you have love that love is easy to find, that everyone has it. It’s not true. It’s very hard to find.”

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • “Well, I never did, but that’s what he claimed. He’ll never marry,” Eve said. “Why do you say that?” “I know it. He’s selfish, but it isn’t selfishness. He’s not afraid of being alone.”

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • “You’re not going to get married, are you?” she said. “Well, of course I think about it.” “It’s not necessary for you. You already have the fruit of marriage.”

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • She could never be without him, she had told him that. There were times she hated him because he was free in a way she was not; he had no children, no wife.

    Light Years
    James Salter

  • One of the most potent surprises is how my relationship with David didn’t end when we stopped being with each other, or even when I fell in love with someone else. I still think about him nearly every day. I still feel the vibrations of forces that I can’t understand — forces, like love and grief and pain, that sit somewhere beyond the limits of language — and these aren’t just memories of feelings but new ones, always new. Our relationship exists, still, somewhere. This, like everything else, is very painful, and accepting it has brought me a kind of liberation that I didn’t think was possible.

    against nature

    Rayne-fisher quinn

  • At least, this is what it has done for me. My relationship with David, like nearly all relationships, felt cataclysmic, world-shifting, inconceivable to anyone outside of it, incomprehensible even to ourselves. We felt certain, like nearly everyone in nearly all relationships, that no one in history had ever experienced anything like it. (If this is what love feels like for everyone else, I wondered, how does anyone get anything done? How does the world keep turning? Who keeps the lights on?) We recognized this as silly and naive but knew there was no point in resisting; to desire, as we know, is to submit to being made a fool. 

    against nature

    Rayne-fisher quinn

  • She meant absolutely nothing to me. Realizing, suddenly, after so many years, that whatever happens I shall never see her again, I nearly collapsed.

    —Emil Cioran, The Trouble with Being Born