But Cecilia had no imagination and never said a word more than was necessary. After a long silence, she concluded: “Till tomorrow, then; good-bye.”
Boredom
Alberto Moravia
Category: SILENCE
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“The thought that is contained within your mind is under your control. If you spread it, it becomes under people’s control; it has gone out of your domain to a wider domain in which it and you will be judged”
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Avoid not only impure deeds, but even words, so that you may be a pure and undefiled man not only in your deeds, but also in your words.
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Among the items that waste time are friendships and spending too much time in speaking about what is beneficial and non-beneficial (more so in what is non-beneficial). It is rare for two people to sit together and build each other speak of what is mutually beneficial.
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For myself, I am working to make voluntary what will eventually happen anyway. Learning to bear my own company and seeking to bear the company of God are proper to this time. I am noticing some changes. For example, I can barely stand to have the radio or music playing in the car when I’m driving – they’re distractions. I’d rather pray. Nevertheless, the noise of my ADD-addled brain provides ample distraction by itself most of the time. What to do with that noise is a matter of constant learning.
Slowing Down for the Necessary Thing
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I decided to fast from music on those four car rides, expecting that the silence would remind me to pray. So on that pleasant sunny day, I set out on my first expedition with the car windows open. I noticed something surprising right away: my muffler was beginning to go out! I hadn’t noticed it earlier because of the music I always play. I wondered what else I might be missing in my life because I do so many things the same way, day after day.
Fasting: Spiritual Freedom Beyond Our Appetites
Lynne M. Baab
