• “He was looking for joy and found the Cross. What remedy is there for his sadness? He must rediscover the spirit of poverty. A rich person is someone who expects everything. A poor person is someone for whom everything is a gift. Nothing is owed us, not even our existence. ‘What do you have that you have not received?’ Friendship, happiness, joy are not owed us.”

    —Jean-Yves Leloup, Being Still

  • The practical person does not spend his life in the past, but he learns a lesson from it and works for the present and the future, with all his might…

    —Pope Shenouda III, Words of Spiritual Benefit Vol. 1

  • As for the outside cross, it is any affliction that the faithful endures for the sake of God, either of his own will or imposed on him.

    —Pope Shenouda III, Words of Spiritual Benefit Vol. 1

  • And just for the same reason we can more easily bear a misfortune which comes to us entirely from without, than one which we have drawn upon ourselves;

    —Arthur Schopenhauer, The Wisdom of Life

  • “If there had been a door within reach that led straight to death, he wouldn’t have hesitated to push it open, without a second thought.”

    —Haruki Murakami, Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage

  • Both spiritual knowledge and health are good by nature, yet their contraries have been of more benefit to many people.

    —St. Maximos the Confessor, Four-Hundred Texts on Love

  • Sometimes men are tested by pleasure, sometimes by distress or by physical suffering. By means of His prescriptions the Physician of souls administers the remedy according to the cause of the passions lying hidden in the soul.

    —St. Maximos the Confessor, Four-Hundred Texts on Love

  • To those who suppose that they can only progress in the spiritual life when all else is “well,” St. John Cassian replies, “You should not think that you can find virtue when you are not irritated — for it is not in your power to prevent troubles from happening. Rather, you should look for patience as the result of your own humility and longsuffering, for patience does depend upon your own will” (Institutes). Towards the end of his life, St. Seraphim of Sarov suffered from open ulcers on his legs. “Yet,” as his Life tells us, “in appearance he was always bright and cheerful, for in spirit he felt that heavenly peace and joy which are the riches of the glorious inheritance of the saints.”

    —Bishop Ignatius Brianchaninov, ILLNESS AND THE WORK OF PERFECTION

  • Remembered suffering never feels as bad as present suffering.

    —Sally Rooney

  • St. Paul did not find his joy in ideal circumstances, but he found his joy in winning others to Christ.

    Fr. Paul Girguis