Category: DISCERNMENT

  • “When you observe some thought suggesting that you seek human fame, you can be sure it will bring you disgrace.”

    St. Mark the Ascetic

  • … the same saint may say one thing about a certain matter today, and another tomorrow; and yet there is no contradiction, provided the hearer has knowledge and experience of the matter under discussion. Again, one saint may say one thing and another something different about the same passage of the Holy Scriptures, since divine grace often gives varying interpretations suited to the particular person or moment in question. The only thing required is that everything said or done should be said or done in accordance with God’s intention, and that it should be attested by the words of Scripture. For should anyone preach anything contrary to God’s intention or contrary to the nature of things, then even if he is an angel St. Paul’s words, ‘Let him be accursed’ (Gal. 1:8), will apply to him.

    —St. Peter of Damaskos (The Philokalia Vol. 3; Faber and Faber pg. 207)

  • So when you feel a cooling for spiritual things and occupations and generally for all divine things, enter deeply into yourself and examine carefully why it has happened; and, if it is your fault, hasten to eliminate and efface it, not so much because you are anxious for the return of spiritual delights, but rather because you want to destroy in yourself all that is unfitting and not pleasing to God. If you find nothing of this kind, submit to God’s will, saying to yourself: ‘God has so decided: let Thy will be done on me, O Lord, weak and unworthy as I am.’ Then be patient and wait, never allowing yourself to deviate from the habitual order of your spiritual life and spiritual works and exercises. Overcome the lack of taste for them, which has assailed you, by forcibly making yourself practice them, paying no attention to thoughts which try to distract you from your efforts by suggesting that this occupation is useless; drink willingly your cup of bitterness, saying to the Lord: ‘See my humility and my efforts, O Lord, and deprive me not of Thy mercy,’ and let your efforts be inspired by the faith that this cup comes from God’s love for you, because He desires you to attain a greater spiritual perfection.

    —Lorenzo Scupoli, Unseen Warfare

  • “Sometimes I will think of something to say and then I ask myself: is it worth it? And it just isn’t.”

    —Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • “It is not freedom when we say to people that everything is permitted. That is slavery.”

    Saint Paisios the Athonite


    “Whatever you perceive as joy or freedom sometimes is slavery.”

    Fr. Paula Balamon

  • Abba Agathon said: “Somebody who is dear to me, if he be excessively [dear] and I realize the he is dragging me into transgression, I cut him off from me.”

    Give Me a Word: The Alphabetical Sayings of the Desert Fathers

  • Not every spiritual father is appropriate for everyone seeking to grow in their faith and in their spiritual knowledge, very few priests or bishops or monks are suitable guides to everyone. The spiritual exercise that brings salvation to one might create only pride or depression or nothing at all in another.

    Salvation comes to those who seek and ask and knock.  There would be no seeking if the first door one knocked on opened right away.

    —Fr. Michael Gillis

  • “This is not optimal, but it is what works for me.”

    Dr. Jason Fung

  • There was this that set him above many [others]: if he were asked about a phrase in Scripture or some spiritual matter, he did not answer immediately, but would say he did not know the answer.  And if he were pressed further, he would not give an answer.

    —Abba Pambo

    Give Me a Word: The Alphabetical Sayings of the Desert Fathers

  • Flatterers are our greatest enemies. They blind our eyes, do not let us see our many defects, and thus hinder us upon the way to perfection, especially if we ourselves are self-loving and not far-seeing. This is why we must always stop those who natter us, or avoid them. Woe unto him who is surrounded by flatterers! Happy is he who is surrounded by simple-hearted people who do not hide the truth, although it may be unpleasant!

    —St. John of Kronstadt, My Life in Christ